THE GOOD LIFE
By: Megs S. Lunn
“Everybody needs to forgive somebody. Our willingness to give and forgive often reveals
the depth, or limitations of our Christianity.” – Matthew Kelly
I am sure anyone of you will agree that it
is the most radical love ever, that God died for our sins. The cross is the greatest manifestation of
that radical love.
When Jesus said to Peter in Matthew 18:21,
“How many times shall I forgive
someone who has sinned against me? Not seven
times, but seventy times seven times.”
Now, that is too radical for us to fathom.
There have been so many stories about generosity and forgiveness. You and I have experienced it. Either it benefited us or the other. How does it feel to forgive someone that
wronged you? I tell you, even before
they commit to that wrong doing, it is a
radical love already to forgive that person. “Love your enemies and pray for those who
persecute you.” (Matthew 5:44)
Do you believe in good karma? I had this “Good Karma” column before, but
good karma keeps coming, thanks God for keeping me on the ground! Just a few weeks ago, I was just tempted to
face someone who just did me wrong.
However, I consoled myself to stay calm and uttered the words, “Lord,
forgive me for being impatient and control my temper not to get angry to this
person.” For days, I keep thinking about
that person, not that I hated him for doing it behind my back, I don’t care
about his presumptions of me because I do believed that everyone is entitled to
his own opinion.
But I am the kind of person who can
confront someone for the sake of peace.
Surprisingly, I got a call from the person just recently and he came up
to me for help. To cut the story short,
he was served with what he needed and I have never confronted him. He was forgiven before he even said a thing,
I just so wish he knew what he did and the kindness extended to him, he can pay
it forward. To forgive and be generous
is a radical love, you do not expect something in return
Radical?
Yes. But truly it can be
done. Nobody’s perfect, I know. We still are learning to put in action the
commandment of God, “Love your enemies.”
The hardest part is that, God is asking us, “When was the last time we
prayed for our enemies?” Absurd? Ha ha,
don’t worry, you are not alone. But
again, yes, it can be done, too. Try it. Practice it.
For there can be no peace without forgiveness.
As the Bible Scholars would say, “When we
choose not to forgive and be generous, we turn our backs from God.” The soul of the gospel is forgiveness and
generosity. “If you forgive others their
trespasses, your heavenly father will also forgive you.” (Matthew 6:14)
Let us pray. Teach us, Jesus, to be generous with our
forgiveness. Amen./MP